Winning is the only thing you want (#1: You are the first problem that exists, it’s your: Duty). And you get that by a good, deserved, feeling.
Not the other way around, unless you want to be a pawn, who goes to war first.
As Sun Tzu once said:
“Victorious warriors win first and then go to war, while defeated warriors go to war first and then seek to win”
― Sun Tzu, The Art of War
The only thing others, as a whole want (2: Partially your duty: That Part is your field of study, your expertise), is some expertise, and your skills, to keep them alive, so that, in return, they keep you alive. You may reach that opional goal by making career with these goals:
Finding the truth, Keeping justice.
By doing that, it has the side-effect, that you feel good, but it actually doesn’t let you fully win.
Another optional existential quest (3: Completely optional) is: Doing what the universe wants us to do: Building meaningless, but long-lasting things, which will let us suffer to death, but still letting us survive, just to have created more „universe“, respective, having converted useless energy into used energy, finally being part of an endless cycle of renewable energy and matter.
The universe, as it is, as it was and how it will be, is perfect. For the universe. From the perspective of living creatures, it is anything BUT perfect.
The Universe wants us to suffer and still reproduce because it is the equivalent of death, the question: „How long are you going to survive?“
We, as human beings, are just able to answer: „Yes“
And just as that, we are conscious and able to live and enjoy live.